Attempts - A Purpose !!!

Life gives you second chance. Not to take your first attempt for granted but to make it perfect in the next one!!!

It is certainly a tremor of the living world which let us indulge in so many necessary or estimated necessary works everyday but still keeps us discontent and dissatisfied. We, of course, know every beautiful things have the harsh and unwanted entities/ consequences hidden beneath them. Have we ever thought in the way of doubting the beautiful things which we assumes to be beautiful? Let's try this one right now. Anything is beautiful or ugly, good or bad, rich or poor, thin or fat are not a subject to be prejudiced. They all rather are more of the relative substances. We can not say lily beautiful when compared to lotus but definitely will, comparing to Calico flower. A beggar of two different places can not be compared for their assets neither finding Cinderella in the real world makes a genuine sense. Point being, comparison to anything in any sort is injustice you are doing with yourselves and with the work you are given which consequently getting affected. In this way, we are given a lame reason to waste our first chance of doing the work.

Many of us constantly keeps on trying to prove our point of why they don't want to be involved in something which they failed or had a bad experience in past. I believe getting scared from past failures is more a case of emotional issues. People might prove their point and avoid anything like that in future but we should remember Earth quakes not happens daily neither you will be the one to get affected every time. Believing in good instances and positivism of nature is a divine strength. Remembering and recalling good instances from something bad is not going to cost us anything but will pay us in positive energy, motivation and willingness to keep going. At least, to me, this gives me joy and curiosity to continue again to know the where about. Failing sometimes is something like inspiration for me in all sorts of work whether in personal or professional life.

We have witness numerous examples of successful person who were not born successful but their hard work, dedication, enthusiasm, work spirit and desire to live their dreams made them what they are. People like Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam Azad, Mark Zuckerberg, Jack Ma, Sylvester Stallone, Steve Jobs, Shaheed Bhagat Singh, Dr. Rajendra Prasad any many more are some live and sustaining example for the society to prove that hard work with dedication always pays and pays well. These people values their dreams more than anything else. We have got "n" numbers of business tycoon minting millions per hour but can we be assure of their lives being satisfied and they are a happy soul. Extra hours of meeting, eyes constantly staring at screen displaying shares prices, brains moving always ahead of the level of their contentment dragging them to extend their desire of earning more. But, let me ensure you, these billionaires were struggled far more than those mentioned above to be acclaimed successful because probably they define success as being rich. While people listed above define success being living up their dreams, pursuing their passion and to follow their heart not to become rich but to be a satisfied and popular one apparently setting up a benchmark in their respecting fields. They also turned to be inspiration for the society and the only reason behind this is that they refuse to give up. They refuse to give up for the sake of "chaar log kya kahenge - What world would say!" They refuse to give up being scared from their future if they fail, they also refuse to give up on challenges to identify the true resources and they refuse to go old without giving up a try to live their dreams and passion.

We should think positive during our tough times. Few important points to remember to overcome from mental depression and to keep oneself motivated:

1. Situations and time do not remains same. It changes and changes for Good.

2. You are not a place to dump everyone's grief & sorrow. So, do not be so easy and polite to accept everyone's problems. Focus on your's first. You have no idea what others actually going through.

3. Tough times are like exams - Comes and Go. Results (Situations) only tells us how we reacted to it, performed and made out of us.

4. You can not fight with nature but that does not mean you accept yourselves how you are. You can modify yourselves in order to keep  moving. 

5. You are not the display of other's thought. Better be original but do not leave a chance to learn from others as well.

Success is like a GUEST - Comes & Go. Our true companion is FAILURE who comes with learning experience and a method to success next time.