A perfect night with your loving one can’t be claimed unless
and until you make her feel proud and satisfied by the decision of hers of
saying “YES I DO” to you and you apply any of or as many as tricks or ways you
want to use from the million ways of showing your love and feeling. It shall be
your treat and gesture to her which shall give her a reason to prolong your
relation. It could be, by any way, to make her feel how much you love your
loved ones, precisely a dinner soaked in love with few flowers may do and if thinking to add sugar a bit to the romance
then that depends on the mutual understanding of the loved ones. You must be
hovering what’s the point in elaborating all this. Then, only because of the
fact that exemplifications always work better than directly stating the fact.
Life, in a similar way, can’t be perfect if we won’t keep on trying to satisfy
its every need, rather using the word “most of the needs” would be much
appropriate. We can’t expect respect in return of abusing someone, we neither
can anticipate an appreciation from our boss for our lagging and
irresponsibility in our work. Thus, life goes on and pay us back in the way we
perform and react.
Is there anybody in this world who is getting everything
just on their will? I guess, I know the answer- definitely none. Life is that
kind of road which has several divergence and tributaries at every few
instances and every divergent is acclivity and aberrated. It completely depends
on the walkers which way they select to move on and how they manage to maintain
their track right. It shall be very obvious that you might get into the wrong
road or precisely in terms of life, one can take a wrong decision. But, the
point should always be that how to converts those uneven and wrong decisions to
the ones which yield us the fruitful, desirable and pleasant result. Life take
turns after every instances and with every turn it polishes our skills of maintaining
the line and track of our movement without much change in entities or the
magnitude the of movement. We can say as vector quantity of the movement will
not be much disturbed, pardon for using my engineering language in almost every
post of mine but actually this is what I am. However, Ups and downs in life is
just like a wave protein, it exactly do not contribute in making flesh and
packs on the muscles of a human body but it increase the stamina of the body
and make body fragile enough to bear the extra weight and work out and so a strong new physique is phoenixed out
of the same old loose pale body. In the same way, struggle n difficulties do
not change our life neither can help us in becoming a good and successful
person, but it make us to realise the importance of hard work and being sincere
and consequentially we can transform ourselves in a successful person. Life is
nothing without working, performing and responsibilities. But, these three
things are also meaningless without happiness. So, what does these two lines
really mean? It meant as simple as life is all about being happy with the
realisation of one’s responsibilities. And I don’t want to muffle on defining
the meaning of “Happiness” because happiness can be defined in million ways depending
upon the interest and hobbies of the person. As for example, Happiness for my
girl friend lies in 5 Star Chocolate and few other edible items. She can have
such stuffs even if she thinks that her destiny is betraying her and she is
going through the worst phase of the day or a week. She can think about
chocolate (5 star) even when she has been burdened with the hundred of files
and deadlines to complete her work is something at pinpoint limit and believe
me even in such a tense situation she can draw some time to think about
chocolates, samosas, burgers etc and after spending a while on such pleasant
thoughts, finally she conclude by having one at last with immense pleasure. She
thinks she could feel happiness by doing this, so she does. Sometimes, I add
more happiness in hers by planting a gentle kiss on her chicks and her face is then
worth watching at that moment. Sometimes, her happiness crosses the limit when
I plant a kiss on her Chick in public and again her staring eyes with anger
blended with hidden love in somewhat mischievous sense are worth watching. Then,
She applies force to the extreme on my biceps with both of her palms in
reaction as if she thinks “she could make me realise that I have done something
non sense and so I am punished by getting hurt with her forceful muscular
action”. Moreover, Some people thinks their happiness lies in working even
after the formal retirement, and to see their designation changing even after
when their eyes refuses to see the files properly without any catalytic
substance that are worn on eyes. Some can keep themselves happy by flirting and
hanging around with opposite sex, while some people keep on studying and find
themselves happy when standing on dais with a medal. No matter whatever they
are, however they do, the only motive lies behind all these is to be happy.
This is all about life.
We performs several works in the course of our life but did
we ever noticed that we never get messed up in all those work and even in such
a busy schedule we manage to think and remember our loving ones and we also
manage to spend some time with them. We all love to be loved and so we always
try to do those things which please others and give the feeling of joy to them.
In this single life, we humans are designed to perform so many works with the
maximum possible efficiency which is probably the best in any living and
non-living machines. We are humans and so we have the power to express our
feelings and to understand other feelings. This difference between humans and other
creature is worth maintaining, else we won’t be appreciated for being humans
rather we will only be considered as humans. Elaborately, in spite of being
involved in thousands of worldly affairs we can manage every necessary entities
for our survival and existence and in spite of walking on the road with
millions of divergent and tributaries, we manage to get to our destination.
These are the few incomparable qualities by which we are blessed of and so we
should maintain the dignity and should focus on the motive for which we have
been landed on Earth by nature.
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